November 2014

Debriefing Resources

by Angie Washington on November 28, 2014

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Thanks to the facebook followers of our A Life Overseas page we have a list of debriefing resource links. Please share any resources you have found helpful. We would love to bulk up the list with resources around the globe. Other names for debriefing include: home assignment, re-entry counseling, member care, and processing for repatriation. […]

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Do We Practice What We Preach?

by Chris Lautsbaugh on November 26, 2014

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The other week, I made a trip to the local police station to get an affidavit. In South Africa, this is the venue you head to make a document “official”. The officer who helped me chatted with me a bit. He inquired how long I’d been in the nation and where I stayed. Finally he asked […]

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25 Kilo Turkeys and Cultural Humility

by Marilyn on November 24, 2014

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We bought a turkey on Saturday – an almost 23 pounder, with no additives and gluten free (really — they had to tell us it was gluten free? Aren’t all turkeys gluten free?)  As this time of the year comes around I think of Thanksgivings we have spent all over the world and all across […]

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Here’s my heart, O take and seal it

by Elizabeth Trotter on November 20, 2014

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I want to finish the Christian life well. To continue to press in to God, listen to Him, and influence others to do the same. But what if don’t? What if I fizzle out, forsake my First Love, fail to follow Him to my dying breath? I’m not talking about losing my salvation; I know my […]

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Ask A Counselor: Do I need counseling?

by Kay Bruner on November 19, 2014

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Welcome to the first in a new series here at A Life Overseas:  Ask A Counselor! (It sounds kind of like a game show title.  I feel like there should be flashing lights and funky music.) Let me tell you just a little bit about myself before we get started this first time.  I’m 48 […]

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Just Be Faithful

by Marilyn on November 17, 2014

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“I’m so tired” I think as I’m walking to the subway. Rain is falling and my feet hurt. I’m dragging at six thirty in the morning. I want to cry in this world of cold and rain. Just be faithful – It’s not like I see the Heavens open and hear the voice of God […]

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What’s Your Name? On Adopting Local Names

by Rachel Pieh Jones on November 14, 2014

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I moved to Somaliland and when people first heard my name they wanted to know why I had man’s name. “Why is your name Rashid? You aren’t a man. Are you a man?” Eventually I got tired of explaining that I was, indeed, a woman, despite all nomenclature to the contrary. Someone suggested I needed […]

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When on those highways and byways…

by Richelle Wright on November 12, 2014

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I used to find it some combination between mildly amusing and slightly annoying when I’d hear people pray for “traveling mercies,” even though at the time we were crisscrossing the state of Michigan (as well as a few adjacent states) almost every weekend seeking the financial support to head to West Africa as missionaries. Then one […]

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The Idolatry of Missions

by Jonathan Trotter on November 9, 2014

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Missionaries are like the church’s Special Forces, right? They go into enemy territory, sometimes covertly, tearing down walls for Jesus. They have special training, preparing them to serve in the darkest places around the globe. Missionaries are on the front lines of the Kingdom of Heaven, right? I’m sorry, but no. Wherever the Gospel is […]

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How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work: 50 Best Tips

Before we moved to Laos, I worked full time as a stress-management and resilience trainer for humanitarian workers. During those years I saw first-hand the pressure that living overseas places on people and relationships. After my husband and I moved overseas ourselves, I decided to focus my energies on supporting relationships—particularly long distance relationships—and last […]

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